Girlfriend problems.........?

Well, it sounds to me like this woman is not a christian. That's your first problem. A good Christian woman would never back-talk her man and would do everything he says, humbly. My suggestion: One good slap in the face. One slap never hurt anybody, and it will get the message across. One time, my boyfriend wanted to have sex with me, but I had the flu and told him I didn't feel like it, so he slapped me, and I've never turned him down again! It fixed all our problems! One little slap! Give it a try!