Why do people make me seem like im doing something wrong?

earlier i posted a question based on overweight people. a few understood the question. others, who i honestly dont think they even read the question, jumped straight to conclusions that i was 'making fun' or 'trying to make people feel bad'. i honestly hate offending people without a cause. it was supposed to be more of a 'get yourself together' thought than a 'your worthless' one. i honestly find it very ignorant of people to call me the jerk. i find it wrong to tell someone who is trying to help to 'go to hell' while they continue to damage their bodies by being careless of their weight.